Do u think its a healthy choice to have kids?

My wife wants kids? I'm hesitating because she has hydrocephalus since birth. Last year she undergo brain surgery and was hospitalized for 3 months and she also developed 6th cranial nerve palsy last yr. The general surgeon said she has little abdominal adhesions from previous surgeries. Do u guys believe that... show more My wife wants kids? I'm hesitating because she has hydrocephalus since birth. Last year she undergo brain surgery and was hospitalized for 3 months and she also developed 6th cranial nerve palsy last yr. The general surgeon said she has little abdominal adhesions from previous surgeries.

Do u guys believe that she will stop saying this over time. I even said to her we can adopt if you want. She said its not same as your own. She just wants to expeirence carrying a baby for 9 months. I tell her that there are many people are childless still their marriage is running good its all about understanding among couples.
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