Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 7 months ago

YIKES! father-in-law's new gf is twisting my words?

in a nutshell, my husbands father's new gf and I hit things off really well, until 4 months later. she announced my "pregnancy" . everything and anything I tell her seems to get misheard, and she tells my father in law her version of it which blows my mind. I was telling her about my OBGYN appointment (the usual regular checkup) and how my doctor was patronizing me about my birth control choice of the nuvaring whereas she wanted me to do the armor up which I did not want. My doctor made comments such as "oh you're not pregnant yet?" and "oh I bet you must be infertile" because she just rude and putting up an attitude for whatever reason based on my choice of birth control. so I am telling this to the new girlfriend, and she was like "wow, yeah she seems horrible, you should go see another OBGYN"... my father in law heard some of the conversation, and thought I was talking about the fact that I was pregnant. instead of coming to me, he asked her if I was pregnant, and she said I was trying to conceive?! like hello? so because of that, there was a meeting held (behind my back) to announce my pregnancy. I found out about it, and had to explain over and over again my side of the story. Anyways, now there are barriers between me, and everyone because now everyone just thinks I made up stories and told her lies?! she refuses to talk to me about it, or to anyone about it because she "doesnt want to get involved" UGH! Why would she do that? and how the heck did she misunderstand me?

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    6 months ago

    Clear things up with everyone about the phantom pregnancy then simply stop divulging your private medical information to this woman.

  • 7 months ago

    this isn't true

  • Steve
    Lv 7
    7 months ago

    Big deal.Yikes to your unnecessary alarm. Relax.

    Tell all concerned there has been a misunderstanding is all. You’re not pregnant, and you’re not seeking to become pregnant.

    That’s all you have to say. Let them come to you with questions.

    And don’t worry about it

  • Sandy
    Lv 7
    7 months ago

    just let thinks settle and don't interact with them for a while. now you know how she is, just be polite and keep your opinions and comments to a minimum where she's concerned.

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