Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 year ago

Is a age gap of 20 years okay in a relationship if I truly love someone?


If you have never been in love before, but finally found a woman but she is 20 years younger than you should I still give it a shot? A little background info on me never been married or had any kids, so I dont have any baggage, but if I really like this girl dont I owe it to myself to give it a shot?

26 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Even 50 years would be okay, as long as the young partner is above 18. Who cares what other people think? Those who complain are just jealous.

  • 1 year ago

    20 year gap is a bit of a stretch and unless you two have mots of things in common you enjoy doing regularly, and share a lot of the same views, it's not likely to be a happy relationship.

  • John P
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Yes, provided the younger partner is of legal age for full romance including sexual activity. In most countries around 16 years, but check the law where you are.

    Certainly give it a shot, but be prepared for the romance to end sometime - it might not end, so good luck!

  • Trish
    Lv 5
    1 year ago

    You shouldn't marry someone young enough to be your child. It's in the Bible.

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  • 1 year ago

    Love needs no age :)

  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Without further detail, no real answer is possible

    eg 50 and 30 is fine

    35 and 15 is immoral and predatory

    80 and 60.....why waste the time you have left?

  • Me
    Lv 6
    1 year ago

    If you both are consenting adults and want the relationship, why not?

    There will be issues because of the age difference. You are different stages in your life. But some couples are able to work through those issues.

  • 1 year ago

    It’s perfectly fine if you are adults

  • As long as you're both adults. Just be careful because society can be very judgmental sometimes.

  • 1 year ago

    As long as you are both classed as adults age is not an issue.

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