Women what would you do if ....?
By someone you’ve been dating for only 3 months ...and they say they’re in love with you .
What’s the next step if you wish to keep the baby ?
Or would you ?
Id you are 30-35 years of age and the guy is 38.
- Katherine WLv 71 year ago
It doesn't matter what I would do. It only matters what you would do.
Personally, I would wait a year to have a baby. That would mean having an abortion now and waiting to see how the relationship works out. If it works, you can still get pregnant in a year. If it doesn't work, then you're not tied to the guy.
If you want to keep the baby, talk to him. See what he wants to do.
Frankly, a guy declaring love in three months might be in love OR he might be abusive.
- Anonymous1 year ago
Run, he likely has a case of baby rabies.
- PippinLv 71 year ago
I probably wouldn't be having sex with someone I'd been seeing that short a time -- certainly not sex without very reliable contraception (making the likelihood of pregnancy the first month pretty remote ...) So the scenario would be vanishingly unlikely.
But what I would do -- no idea. There would have been a million variables that would influence my decision.
- MissALv 71 year ago
I'd keep the baby if I wished to keep the baby.
I would not automatically marry the baby's father... I'm already going to be stuck with him for the rest of my life so there's no need to sprint out and form a second permanent relationship. If I liked him I'd certainly keep dating him... but the decision to marry should be based on if we *both* love each other, get along well, have similar goals etc.
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- LizBLv 71 year ago
Well, I was married and having babies intentionally at that age... but hypothetically, my decision would depend solely on whether I wanted to be a mother or not. If I felt I was ready for a baby then I'd have the baby, and while I would hope the father would be involved, my decision to parent would be independent of my decision to pursue the relationship.
- TulipLv 71 year ago
There's no excuse for anyone that old to have an unwanted pregnancy