I found out accidentally that a surprise party has been arranged for my birthday by my sister, it’ll be just family as i have no friends!?

I hate this and will not go!! Im turning 50 and do not want my sis, her perfect family, my bro and his perfect family all staring at me. Plus my old parents saying how old I am and how ive “aged” My mother loves saying how “ive aged” Im single with no kids Family live in different cities. Party is in my city.. I... show more I hate this and will not go!!
Im turning 50 and do not want my sis, her perfect family, my bro and his perfect family all staring at me.
Plus my old parents saying how old I am and how ive “aged”
My mother loves saying how “ive aged”
Im single with no kids

Family live in different cities.
Party is in my city..
I will walk out if i go!
How do i get out of this!??
Im not a freak to stare at!
They will all act fake and like they care.
They do not
My sis has done this to embarass me.
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