If a man w/no job lives with his girlfriend (breadwinner), is it inappropriate for him to call her his wife to her family/friends/colleagues?

… as well as to HIS family/friends? And keep in mind of the following: 1. They have no children together. 2. It's her house/her mortgage. 3. He's not incapable of working, but instead is incompetent, as she has typed up his résumé and sent him on interviews for jobs which he obviously ended up quitting... show more … as well as to HIS family/friends? And keep in mind of the following:

1. They have no children together.
2. It's her house/her mortgage.
3. He's not incapable of working, but instead is incompetent, as she has typed up his résumé and sent him on interviews for jobs which he obviously ended up quitting or getting fired from.
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