Lady, you seem to me, to be another ungrateful and self absorbed female. The man has a business to run. That is how you all eat, pay bills and so on. A business has to gain new clients as well as keep its existing clients happy. Things must be scheduled, workers scheduled, directed and so on. Running your own business, can be a huge amount of work and hours, if it is to be profitable.
Ask a female where she wants to go and eat and/or what she wants to do, to which she will reply, you pick. She will say anyplace or anything is fine, until you pull into the place. Then suddenly the funny look or snap, of anyplace but here. Basically, it is read her mind and do exactly what she wants, or there is heck to be paid. Do no ever attempt to argue this, for almost every man reading this answer will laugh and say yep, been there and done that. Just another head game women love to play on the guy.
Like most females, you do not appreciate what or whom you have, nor what it takes for a man to succeed. You do not grasp that the universe does not revolve around you, your feelings, thoughts, wants. You probably feel as if you do him a favor by being there, when the opposite if far more likely the case. Lastly, no matter how annoyed you and others get by this, I will tell you that the vast majority have only one thing that is of any real use and benefit to a man, and for it we pay too steep a price.
Lady, it seems that most of you females are too self absorbed as well as suffering from mental illness, to make most of you worth dealing with. It is like most of you are struck at ten years old mentally.