The solution is quite simple. YOU are the problem.
Despite what you think you are contributing, he's busting his six, every day of the weak, allowing you to live a life so comfortable, you can go online and whine about it. Everyone understands that starting and running your own business consumes an enormous amount of time to be successful. Rather than attempt to understand and support him, you resent him. Brilliant. As far as him asking you where you wish to go to eat...what a heathen he is for wanting to please you by giving you first choice. Besides, it's a trap anyway. If he makes the decision, you'd accuse him of being selfish and not caring of what you want.
You're also a liar with no honor.
You said in front of a preacher, God, and the rest of your friends and family, "For better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness and health, til -death- do us part". And you want to leave because you're "sick and tired?" So you like the "better, richer and health" part, but not the sickness and death part? Man, you're really something. I could go on and on. Do him a huge favor and leave. He has definitely earned way better than you. Stay single my friends.