Person A asks if person B wants to go out for dinner (this is as friends!) in front of you but they dont ask you, is this rude?
- AgaLv 71 year ago
Yes, it's rude.
To be the third person would feel bad and good manners are all about ensuring that people feel as comfortable as possible
- MeLv 61 year ago
It is rude. Maybe I am old fashioned, but I make a point not to talk about things in front of people who are not invited. It is common courtesy.
- Kiss Me KateLv 71 year ago
yes it is rude--it is very easy today to text someone and ask them to dinner--without upsetting someone in the process. a lot of young people today have no consideration of others--possibly due to the facebook effect--where everyone is excluding others on a daily basis--without a second thought, all in the quest to be the "most popular one around".
- JerryLv 71 year ago
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Nothing wrong with "Jimmy doesn't play banjo so lets' not bore him with banjo talk. Let's discuss this over lunch tomorrow."
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- LitaLv 61 year ago
Yes, it is.
- capitalgentlemanLv 71 year ago
- choko_canyonLv 71 year ago
If you have to ask whether a thing is rude or not, it's not. Rudeness is subjective.
- Pearl LLv 71 year ago
definitely and i hate it when people do that to nne, next tinne i hear that i nnight ask thenn if i can go with thenn
- JuanBLv 71 year ago
Yes it's rude. Such a question should be in a private conversation one on one.
- dewcoonsLv 71 year ago
Depends on the situation. No do not have enough information to guess if this was or was not rude.