I found out my wife of 16 years, had a one night stand the night before our wedding, all those years earlier?
I have done some digging, and haven't found any signs of her currently cheating or cheating within the last 10 years. I confronted her and she admitted it. I just feel so gutted. If I knew of this back then, I wouldn't have married her. But now I just dont' know if I can forgive this. Cheating was always one of those things I couldn't forgive.
But we have 16 years of marriage, and 19 years total together. I can't fathom throwing that away, over something that she regrets, based on a lot of journal entries following our marriage. She is a good mother, wife, and friend now. I'm so conflicted.