What is mine and my best friends relationship? Are we more than just friends?

Me and my best friend live together, we share the same bed every single night. Sometimes when we are sleeping we wake up spooning or middle of the night I either wake up and put my arms round him or he does the same, none of us back away. We tell eachother we love eachother every time one of us are going to work, or even if one is just popping out to the shop. We like to drink too so when we are drinking we always get drunk and say how much we love eachother. On a few occasions now. We have got drunk and gone to bed and in the middle of the night I wake up to him putting my hand on his penis and wanting me to start jerking him off. And I do, then I move his hand onto mine and the same happens. The next morning we both say ‘I can’t remember nothing about last night’ even thou I do and I’m guessing he does too. Now yes, we do both class ourself as straight.... but now I’m starting to guess what it actually is? Never have I felt feelings like this towards another guy in my life let alone done anything with one.. but I genuinely don’t know what to feel or what to say. Like, I have work in 3 hours and have not slept and I simply think it’s because he’s away for a few nights? What is this? And it’s starting to get to the point where I get annoyed when he says someone is good looking cause then I think well what was the other night? Was it purley just drunken behaviour or is there something there that we are both scared to admit?

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  • reme_1
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    #1 do not use 'me' as the subject of the sentence.

    You two are a gay couple whether you want to admit it or not. You need to call the gay center and talk to the counselor. You might need a couples counselor. Pretending you are straight is just BS.

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  • 1 year ago

    Two friends that are one step above "normal" and one step below "lovers". If it feels good, do it.

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  • Tj
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    You guys love each other, and just are afraid to admit it. Time to sit down and be honest with each other. Let the love flow. You are what you are.

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  • 1 year ago

    More than friendship. Maybe one of those relationships that defies labels.

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  • Sounds to me as if you are bisexual.

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  • 1 year ago

    ummm... ive never... uhhhhh. nope just friends. thats normal.

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