"How often did you and a friend hold women down to pull their clothes off?"
"Is it OK to install a supreme court judge who did that?"
Don't think we should install high school students as judges but later in life, sure.
"Do we just say "Boys will be boys" even though the vast majority of males never engaged in anything that depraved?"
Sure, whatever, no harm done, but you should have a word with the kids' parents.
"Do we blame the young woman for the way she looked or acted?"
That's dumb, you're dumb. The blame is on the parents of the kids that were acting inappropriately, which could also include the young woman's parents, if she did something inappropriate as well.
"Should Republican women just shut up and be OK with that behavior?"
What behavior? Republican women can speak about whatever they want but you haven't yet mentioned any type of behavior that someone wouldn't be OK with, except for the kids' parents, which could include up to 1 republican woman per kid.