How to get closure after friendship ending?

One year ago today my best friend of 20+ years, ended our friendship due to me suggesting she learn to drive. We were 35 and for years I’ve been taking her to work, and she frequently mooched off of me. She responded by writing the most hateful email, threw all my issues in my face (my weight, debt, and so on) and... show more One year ago today my best friend of 20+ years, ended our friendship due to me suggesting she learn to drive. We were 35 and for years I’ve been taking her to work, and she frequently mooched off of me. She responded by writing the most hateful email, threw all my issues in my face (my weight, debt, and so on) and revealed she’s been tired of me since 2003 (yeah, not kidding). I feel like she kept me around to use me. She told me not to write back because she won’t read it. I think about that email on a daily basis, even though it’s deleted… How do I find closure, since I couldn’t respond?
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