Its about getting it right.Finding the right girls every time.Learn what you need to know so you can enjoy dating.You need to know which girls to avoid and which ones to look for.When you get it right your experiences in dating will be worth it.By dating the right girls to start with you you dont have to go through bad experiences.Not many people make the effort to achieve that. Dating is a 2 way street.It takes 2 people to make dating work.Its teamwork from the moment you and a girl meet.
To start with you need to some basic step by steps:
1)Always start by looking for the women who are interested in you. They are the ones who look at you and they smile at you.Some might just stare at you.Those ones are your choices right from the start. It should always be mutual interest.
2)If a woman doesnt notice you it means she isnt interested in you.Sometimes,it means you arent their type.Move on.Dont approach them.You will get rejected. Always move on straight away or you'll miss out on others.
3)Smile back at those women who look at you and they smile at you and say "Hi" or "Hey".
4)Then go over and introduce yourself to her.Just say:"Hi,my name is.....,I just wanted to meet you".
5)Find out her name by asking her what her name is.
6)The best topic to talk to a woman is her.Start by getting to know her.You are trying to bring a new person into your life.Ask her questions about herself so you get to know all about her.Ask a lot of questions over 3 or 4 dates.It shows her you are interested in her. Find out about her sooner not later.And you find out if you are on the same page or arent compatible you move on sooner.
7)She should ask you questions about yourself so she can get to know all about you too.It shows she is interested in you too.
8)There are certain things you need to look for from the first moment you meet:
a)Her good qualities.
b)The compatibilities between you and her.Its about what you and a woman have in common.
c)Warning signs. The things you dont want to put up with.The deal breakers.Divorce courts are full of them.
d)You need to know what you want in the future,eg:marriage,family of your own,etc.There are some women who wont date a guy who doesnt know what they want in their future.
9)At some point you and a woman will find out if you and them are compatible/have a lot in common or not. If you do,continue seeing them.If not,call it a day and move on,start searching again.Have standards.Learn about someone sooner not later.You can move on quicker if things arent right.
Then there are some dating books that teach you more:
1)"Are You The One For Me?" By Barbara De Angelis.
2)”Cracking The Love Code”. By Janet O’Neal.
3)"Toxic Friends:a practical guide to recognizing and dealing with an unhealthy friendship". By Loraine Smith-Hines.
4)"A Man's Guide From Frog To Prince:a woman reveals dating secrets every man should know." By Susan Young.
5)"Booby Trapped.Men Beware:The Dirty Seven Sisters". By June Marshall.
6)"Undercover Sex Signals." By Leil Lowndes.
7)"The Complete Idiots Guide To Handling A Break Up". By Rosanne Rosen.
Those books cover everything you need to know.They are still available new and second hand. Good luck.