The choice is yours to make.
I don't know why you married her. I do yard work, clean, cook, and I also work, so I can earn money. If you married your wife because of her looks, then I don't think you are marriage minded. In other words, you should have never married her, and I don't think you should marry anyone else.
That's nice she stays active in school activities, and she is a band mom. I think you should have never married a girl, and you should have found a woman who finished school, and who is affectionate, and who thinks about her partner instead of only thinking about herself.