What do I do? My boyfriend is going to jail.?

My boyfriend of a year is going to jail for 5 months due to technically child pornography charges due to a 17 year old pretending to be 18 online and sending him nudes. We have been struggling over the last year (in part due to this stress) because he has been really distant and struggles to open up or spend the... show more My boyfriend of a year is going to jail for 5 months due to technically child pornography charges due to a 17 year old pretending to be 18 online and sending him nudes. We have been struggling over the last year (in part due to this stress) because he has been really distant and struggles to open up or spend the time with me that I need. He has severe abandonment issues that lead to trust issues that result in committment issues. I struggle to understand where our relationship stands sometimes. So I don't know if I stay with him or is it not worth it to wait five months to figure out where our relationship is going? He will have this record and stigma with him for the rest of his life, therefore so will I. My family already struggles to like him and I don't think they would ever understand us being together and me sticking with him. This could also impact my own carreer, which terrifies me. I would love advice from people who may have similar circumstances or advice.
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