How to accept something that’s out of your control ?

I was in a car accident a month ago and my car was totaled. I was pretty traumatized and I couldn’t calm down. I have a new car now and I hate it. I hate the color I hate everything. I just want my old car back. This new car is on a lease for 4 years so how can I accept that I’m going to have this car for the next... show more I was in a car accident a month ago and my car was totaled. I was pretty traumatized and I couldn’t calm down. I have a new car now and I hate it. I hate the color I hate everything. I just want my old car back. This new car is on a lease for 4 years so how can I accept that I’m going to have this car for the next 4 years ? I have this huge weight on my shoulders and I feel “stuck” like how I did when I was in the accident. What can I do ?
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