I am the adult victim of rape.
He came at me from behind in a parking lot, knocked me down, punched me in the face repeatedly until I stopped calling for help. He ripped my clothes, punched me a few more times for good measure, forced his penis into my dry vagina and tore me from my anus to the my vagina. He then grabbed my purse and took off running (after threatening to kill me if I reported the incident). I was hospitalized for 3 days while my nose was set (yes, he broke my nose) and to recover from the stitches which were needed to repair the genital damage. I had nightmares for months. I was out of work for almost two months. It took a long time for me to venture out after dark.
And, yes, I did report it and, miracle of miracles, he was caught using one of my credit cards, I picked him out in a line up, he was arrested, two other women came forward, he got 25 years in jail.
Your question is insulting.
One of the things that helped me was my therapist’s unshakeable belief in karma. You know, what goes around comes around. Wonder if rape will be humorous to you when the person who is raped is your mother/sister/girlfriend/wife? Karma!