Is it weird or normal that my best friend sleeps at my girlfriend's house without telling me?
Sometimes my best friend has to work close to the area where my girlfriend lives. First of all, I would NEVER suspect anything going on between the two of them- not a concern of mine at all.
I just feel a little disrespected when my friend goes to sleep over at my girlfriend's house without even mentioning it to me. I think it would be courteous if she could at least just tell me. I'm not asking for much; not even asking her to get my permission or saying that I would say no.
It's just that she has gotten extremely mad at me for MUCH lesser things in the past, such as hanging out with a mutual /friend/ of ours without her when she was out of town. This is my girlfriend...if I went to stay at her boyfriend's house without asking or telling her, I feel like she would be mad.
I want the same respect. Is this weird or controlling of me? Or normal?