Well, You should first know how the world works, around us all.
You are expecting love, affection, care, attention from your boyfriend,
family members, or other known people.
but you are not getting as much as you are expecting and that makes you feel bad
feel cheated or makes you angry for not getting enough love, care and attention.
here, what you should know is that...
How much love, care and attention, are they expecting from you.
and are you giving them the same level of care love and attention from your side?
People always expect first then they give, like
Let them care for me and in return I shall care for them...
Is it some kind of business transactions or what, like give and take policy.
No, Love is not business, and there should not be any selfishness in it.
You should love others, unconditionally, and don't expect any returns from them.
when you give love you are so happy and satisfied. you will become the powerhouse of love.
just like a mother's love, it is same towards all her children. no expectations.
there is no business here nor selfishness.
OR just like a tree giving fruits and shade and shelter to so many birds and insects.
You should know that when you give love, unconditionally and without any selfishness,
you will be happy, for giving love.
and the person receiving love and care from you may not return the same love and care
to you, and it is not necessary also. but that person will be full of love and caring nature
that he in return gives the same love and care to some other person. this may not necessarily
have to happen immediately it may happen after some time or after a long time, but the love
and care you have given to others does not go waste. One day it will come back to you in many
folds and through the same person or from some other person.
Remember Life is not about expecting love and getting love.
but Life is all about giving love, spreading love, and spreading happiness.
without expecting anything in return.
Once you realize this truth, you will see everything around you is so good,
everybody around you will look like so friendly and you will be happy for
have this wonderful life in this wonderful world. life will become lively,
and Life will be Lovely.