Get out- now.
Leave your phone, and anything else that can track you.
Don't use any credit cards you may have with him.
Get away from your apartment, and go to the police station.
Ask to speak to the local domestic violence victim support group.
they have resources and guidance you NEED.
If you don't do this fast, and if you give him any inkling you want to leave, you will be in far more danger than you ever have. Don't say a word to family or friends, and get out- and ask for help from the DV group. DOn't apologize or feel this is your fault. Later on, look online at the section on the Hotline.org that says "Is This Abuse" and you will see a description of everything he is doing to do. It's textbook typical.
He doesn't love you- you are a victim of a sick man who was likely the son of an abuser. You need protection from the DV group, and they will be there for you. Laws have changed, and you can get help- but only if you help yourself. Please do.