Glorifying wimpiness is just as stupid as boasting about a claimed status as an "alpha tough guy."
I'm perfectly capable of kissing a baby, commiserating with a gay bud about his boyfriend troubles and letting him cry on my shoulder, cuddling a scared little girl and telling her everything's gonna be all right, wearing pink (although... do I HAVE to? I don't actually LIKE pink), going "Awww!" over a puppy, baking my own bread --- AND of leaving a smoking hole in the ground where you used to be standing (and of sleeping with your wife -- if she'll have me).
You've ACCEPTED their FAKE "tough guy" dynamic -- you're just on the other side. And your distaste for what you see as "masculine" is just as weird as their phobias about what they think "femininity" means.
Clearly you have a personal axe to grind here. So I'll tell you the same thing I tell bellowing feminoids who "ironically" male-bash as "revenge" for sexism, and that I tell whiny offended men who reverse the worst of the feminist stuff "for illustrative purposes."
In ALL of human history, there is not even ONE instance where "Turn the shlt around" HAS EVER CONVINCED ANYONE OF ANYTHING.
It just means you've doubled the sewage the rest of us have to wade through.