It makes me sick that those that claim to be Christian blame you, you would exspect that from Atheist wouldn't you? The truth is God will answer everyones prayers, not by some divine intervention but in his word that was written for any and all that has questions or problems that they know that only God can handle!
When bad things happen and the congregation goes to their clergyman and ask them why God allowed these bad things to happen they will tell you you lack faith or you didn't give enough to God in your donations to the church! One thing they do is make you feel bad because they imply you have done something wrong and that's why God hasn't answered you!
Jesus called these false teachers as son's of Satan, he said you are from your father Satan! (2 Timothy 4:3-4; 2 Co 4:4)
The scriptures tell us that time and unseen circumstances befall us all, it goes on to say all our problems and questions will be answered only by the Kingdom of God where Christ is to rule! Right now there's a preaching work going on (Matt 24:14; 2 Tim 4:2)
You want answers find those that really know what the Bible teaches, they are doing a worldwide preaching work right now, they have the largest website in the world in over 900 tongues(languages) in over 240 lands! They are indeed doing what Jesus commanded them to do!