For one thing, their leaders think they know all things about the god thingie (no, I do not accept that a god exists) and history. I have had several discussion with some upper level JWs and they are arrogant. One, after talking with him for about 5 minutes and refuting everythng he was claiming, he told me that I just did not understand history. I called his bluff and he was so confused when he realized that I knew far more than he, until he said he had to leave. I replied , 'Yes, I was going to tell you to leave in about another 30 seconds. And never come to my gate again."
Look, they want you to marry one of their completely brainwashed fools, and they are not thinking about your welfare, they are thinking about keeping you in their grasp. Just walk away, you do not have to tell any of them that you are leaving, and don't, just go and never return. Go find your life. Meet new friends, be careful and not go too fast. Learn about anyone before you start dating him, or hanging out with any new people. Do your work, take care of your place where you live, and as I have said, take care of yourself and make your life so that it fits what you hope you want it to be. Honestly, no religion can do anything for anyone except use you and take your money also. Do not believe religion BS, it is not true, just as Jesus is not a true person. He is nothing but an invented character , a comic parody in a fictional story. If you need more details from me, you can leave me a note on this forum or this question, with your email and I will reply. Think about yourself first.