"Can men be feminists?"
Male feminists are called "allies" at the top levels of feminism. That's doesn't sound very amicable. And a man is only considered a feminist ally for as long as he completely tows the line and defers to those feminists in power. Speaking of power, there is a complete glass ceiling for men in the feminist power structure. A man will NEVER be president of NOW, which is supposedly a group dedicated towards equality.
This is the hypocrisy of the modern feminist movement. If someone is a "true feminist" who's only conviction is equality between the genders, then men are to have an equal role in the feminist movement. Right? Well, apparently not. And this is a foul proposition, especially coming from an organization that regularly bashes on the government and the church, both of which have much higher representation of women than the NOW has of men.
If feminists organization are going to talk the talk, they should make sure that their house is in order BEFORE calling out someone else. Especially when everyone else is far better than they are regarding actual equality within their movement.