Am I disrespectful not to be going to the funeral for an old principal of a school I attended briefly? Am I rude here?

I was only at the school for a year as students were mean to me and so I did not return. The teachers did nothing about it. This was 21 years ago. The principal just died and she was perfectly nice but not anyone I'd seen in 21 years. So I figured it would be awkward to go to the funeral even though it is... show more I was only at the school for a year as students were mean to me and so I did not return. The teachers did nothing about it. This was 21 years ago. The principal just died and she was perfectly nice but not anyone I'd seen in 21 years. So I figured it would be awkward to go to the funeral even though it is Saturday and so no scheduling conflict.

Should I feel bad? Is this rude of me not to go? Should I go?
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