I dealt with the same situation that wasted 4 years of my life until I have the courage to finally walk away from him.
Please learn this NOW..
If ANYONE tells you they do not want anything serious / do not want a relationship, LISTEN to them.
Do not let your brain blur you with infatuation with this person and act out in a foolish manner.
Even if he hangs around you often, it doesn't matter, at the end of the day, he wants the companionship WITHOUT the true commitment with you.
The same guy I dealt with did this to me.
He called me multiple times daily, we hung out constantly, I slept over his place pretty much every night,
(Went to the laundry Matt with him as well)
always spent the weekends together, had dinner, I met his FAMILY, ate breakfast/lunch and dinner with his family multiple times,
I met his close friends...
all in a span of 4 years, but still, his mind NEVER changed.
I ended up falling for him and it cost me my confidence shattering and loads of resentment.)
(His defense was that he was burned multiple times in past relationships and "didn't want to deal with it again.") - But again, I have learned it is not my JOB to try and PROVE my worth to anyone.
I know, it makes zero sense... but it isn't your problem at the end of the day to figure it out and to "stick" it out with him, hoping one day he will change his mind... because, he won't.
It's basic human nature, if someone really wants to genuinely be with you, they will NOT right off the bat tell you they don't want to be with you...
He will either want to be with you, or he doesn't. YOU must stand YOUR ground.
Have some self respect and cut off the communication with this guy before he further wastes your time and suckers you in deeper and deeper. If your gut is telling you it doesn't feel right, It's not.
I just don't want you to make the same mistake I did and waste the amount of time I did. Be strong and move on. Raise your standards.