What's considered porn addiction?

So I've been married less than a year, and together almost 3 years. I always thought my husband had a low libido, he would turn me away often and it would cause issues. However, I recently discovered by accident that he has been watching porn once a day before work - leaving little for me. I tested him one day... show more So I've been married less than a year, and together almost 3 years. I always thought my husband had a low libido, he would turn me away often and it would cause issues. However, I recently discovered by accident that he has been watching porn once a day before work - leaving little for me. I tested him one day after he came home and tried to initiate but he turned me down once again. It's really starting to take a toll on my self esteem and confidence. Not only that, but he's been treating me like a porn star in bed. No affection after. Just last night he couldn't even finish. Then this morning when he thought i was asleep he was back at it again. I've tried to talk to him three times but he always gets defensive and says I'm accusing him. What do I do?
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