How can I make my boyfriend happy?

We have been together four years, recently I have been struggling with irregular bleeding due to birth control side effects. He constantly complains that I am always bleeding, and he wants to find a girl who wont bleed 2 weeks and or spot. He told me today, he finds me less and less attractive everyday, and he... show more We have been together four years, recently I have been struggling with irregular bleeding due to birth control side effects. He constantly complains that I am always bleeding, and he wants to find a girl who wont bleed 2 weeks and or spot. He told me today, he finds me less and less attractive everyday, and he definitely won t marry a girl who bleeds as much as I do. I am a beautiful woman, and I know that. I am struggling and hurt as to why he brings me down. I do everything he asks, I get home from school, work, etc and his first words are where is my food? He doesn t ask politely or ask how my day was, from the second I step back into the house I am doing errands for him, and that includes going out and buying anything he needs. When it comes time for bed, he opens porn in front of me and then tells me to pleasure him. After, he ignores me and falls asleep. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG THAT THIS MAN IS OBLVIOUS OF HOW GREAT OF A GIRL I AM? How do i continue on when everyday i come home I am treated toxic? How can I make him happy?
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