How do I crush the crush I have on my manager?

So I've recently started a new job, and well my manager is really really cute and attractive and I've developed a bit of a crush on him.

I'm 17 and he's 23, and I definitely do not want a relationship - I'm pretty sensible and I know that's a bad idea, and I doubt he's interested me in that way. I just want to not have a crush on him! My voice goes shaky when I speak to him and I find myself getting a bit jealous when I see him with my female colleagues. The other day some female customers were trying to flirt with him and I just found myself getting internally angry with them, haha

I'm constantly thinking about him, he's even been in a couple of dreams which I'm really embarrassed about. I get butterflies on the way to work because I know I'm going to see him.

It's not drastic enough to leave my job, I just want to end this silly crush but I don't know how....? What can I do about it?

1 Answer

  • Lara
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    You are attracted to him, he isn't your soulmate. Just be cool with crushing on his looks and nothing more.

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