Hi, First let me tell you, don;t listen to the person mercuri. They are not telling you what to do from a christian perspective at all. You need to hear ONLY Godly views and not what the world think. Like you said, you guys are going too far. By the way you guys were going, sounds like lusting. Maybe you should read what lusting really mean. Besides you can;t read his mind. Would he tell you he was lusting at you??? I think not/. No, that is not good at all. Once you go too far, there is no trunoing back. Just like Adama and eve did the deed. Nothing they could doto make it go away. You 2 may even hate each other if one cause the other to nreak down and go all the way. As a christian, I'm surprised he was following along with you. Just because a perosn starts to do the wronf canyHow do you know he's not lu g thin doesn't mean I have to follow along . I am to think of what God wants me to do. Now I know we are still in the flesh, that';s why you to should no be doing the things you are doing. I want to say this, I would really be quite concern if I was dating a man who states he is a Godly christian man, claims he has no more desire of the things he use to do and you ask if you think you are going too far and he says, it's okay. I would pray and ask the Lord to please, let me know if this man is really one of your elect. Because God expects a true christian to ONLY date and marry another true child of God. Not the American christian. They are not true blue christians. They just use the title. But God knows the heart. You see, it sounds like you are uncomfortable with the way you guys were carrying on, but he doesn't care. Why doesn't he care??? your conscious is bothering you. Are you sure he would not go all the way??? I don't know. I would just pray about the whole thing with this guy. Now, If I was you, I would not go there again. You are tempting yourselves to commit a sin and you obviously know that because you are confessing to us what happened.
Do you know some christians date and don't even kiss each other after a date? They are making sure they restrain from sinning. If that's what it takes, that's what should be done. I am serious!!! Go to www.ebiblefellowship.com and learn more of what the Lord is teaching his christians. You can even call up Chris and ask biblical questions. It's a wonderful , faithful website and teaching.
You sound like you have a sound mind and know what you need to do, so you pray and asj the Lord to help you and you do what ever you know will please the Lord. If I was you, I would noit even read somew of the thinkgs some people answer you with. Like the person Mercuri. The Lord told us to watch our eyes what we might see and our ears what we might hear and our hearts. I hardly even go see a movie these days , because all thathave in it is SEX. No christian need to sit among that. Beofre I go I check the reviews and ratings and read what the moms reviews are saying because they will be more honest. I don't go when the time is set to see the movie, because I learned that no movie starts at 2:15 if that's what it's saying. They go on for like 12 minutes showing previews of other movies, so I don't ant to see those previews, because most if the time it involves a lot of SEX, so I go in about 2::25 or 27 minutes after 2:15. It works very well. We are to guard ourselves as much as we can as christians. What we don't have to see, we should not see.you are not the one who said, you were going to live with the guy and avoid touching each other, because if you are, some of us did warn you. Read the story of Joseph in the bible. Even if you already did before. Read it again and think upon what the Lord is teaching us. He fled from his masters wife. She still lied on him, but God was pleased with him because he did not do something he would regret. Like David did We don't have to go there as long as we stay in the word, pray for strength and don't allow certain things to develope. Abraham was going to kill hos own son because God was telling him to. Would you let go of this man if God guided you to see that he is not a christian man at all.????
I wonder if you told him you were not really an christian saved person would he care???????????
He's suppose to, but I wonder. You have to be very careful as a christian. I don't trust any guy who say he loves the Lord unless I can see that kind of life style in his life. God wants the best for his own and he commands us to only date another christian person. A true one. I am not accusing him to not be one, but he sound lie a very weak one if he is one and I would not want that either.
Take care!! Listen to what the Lord is telling you.