Problems with Erection?

Question

I'm having some problems with my erections. I've been hooking up with this girl and we've tried to have sex with her like 5 times now but everytime I can't get hard. I have no problems with getting oral or any other foreplay but when it comes down to sex I lose my erection. I even lost it the last...

Answer 1

An erection is 50% physical and 50% mental. And this is what happens to a lot of guys: They're finally with someone they really care about and that messes with their mind just enough to where it affects that part about sustaining an erection. And once you fail, it causes a little doubt to creep into your mind. Which makes the likelihood of failing again that much higher...and it becomes a vicious, self-perpetuating problem.

It's also compounded by the girls your age who don't really know very much about sex, in spite of what they think they know. They think just seeing them naked should be the world's biggest turn-on for a guy, and if you're not then they'll assume something is wrong with you...or with them. But actually an erection is a very complicated emotional, mental and physiological reaction, and a lot of little things can go wrong, at any time.

I have four pieces of advice:

1) Go to a book store and browse the Human Sexuality section. Find some (non-religious) books to read on this topic, and also about how to have "good" sex. Read them. Part of your problem might be confidence, and knowledge is a good confidence booster. Plus you may learn some things to do that will make her crazy for your even without actual intercourse.

2) For a week to 10 days prior to your next expected encounter, do not watch porn or masturbate. At your age, by the time you get with her your body may be so primed that it may be able to physically overcome any mental issues you're having.

3) If you're physically close enough to someone to be getting naked with them 5 times, you should also be emotionally close enough to openly discuss this with them.

4) And you should also consider getting a physical. Lots of things can affect your ability to get an erection, from your diet to your blood pressure. Discuss with a doctor. If he or she doesn't seem to take your problem seriously, get another doctor.

Good luck.

Answer 2

It seems you have issues known as ED, although you are quite young. But it can occur any age among the men depending on the circumstances. So rather than thinking too much about it, you should really get a proper medication for it. And I am quite sure if you take the right medication, your problem will be solved and you will be able to enjoy normal sex life.

Answer 3

first, if you dont want to lose her just you know sit down and talk to her, let her know whats going on and how you really feel about her and for the penis problem i would try a few more times and relax and if its still not working ( not even alone like masturbation) i would go to a doctor some time this week the soon the better :)

Answer 4

You have your problem right there. You are probably unintentionally nervous about trying to get an erection so you try and force yourself to which causes you to fail. If you can get an erection whilst masturbating then it is just the sex issue. You need to overcome this fear by calming down and talking to her about it

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