When it comes to relationships, why do people (esp. guys) wanna go so fast?

Why don't people take enough time to get to know one another.. and be friends before starting a relationship? Because after all, you have to be compatible right? And you want the relationship to last? So why the rush? I mean, nowadays you text one another for a week, you see one another 2 days.. and words... show more Why don't people take enough time to get to know one another.. and be friends before starting a relationship? Because after all, you have to be compatible right? And you want the relationship to last? So why the rush?

I mean, nowadays you text one another for a week, you see one another 2 days.. and words like "love" already fall? or people say things like: "I don't know how I've managed to live without you". Why does it seem that we value lust more than love?
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