HELP why would he do this to me..?

LONG BUT PLEASE READ CAREFULLY so my boyfriend of over a year and his parents left on wednesday, bound for texas, to go check out Texas A&M for my boyfriend. when he got to the hotel late on wednesday, he texted me: telling me he was there, commenting about places-people-things, and before i went to bed he told me... show more LONG BUT PLEASE READ CAREFULLY
so my boyfriend of over a year and his parents left on wednesday, bound for texas, to go check out Texas A&M for my boyfriend. when he got to the hotel late on wednesday, he texted me: telling me he was there, commenting about places-people-things, and before i went to bed he told me he was gonna be busy tomorrow (thursday). i said ok and i understood that, so i didnt text him at all during the day on thursday. then it was 10:50 at night on thursday, i hadnt heard anything from my bf ALL day, i'd even sent him a text earlier that day sayin 'you should call when youre not busy :)' he didnt respond to it and he never called....so since it was late and i didnt even get a good night text from him, i kinda figured he passed out when he got back to the hotel but i was still upset. i sent him a few texts, i said i was wantin to stay up fer him to talk to him but i had a double shift the next day and wanted to get to bed, then i told him i was upset we didnt get to talk but i was going to bed now, i said i loved him and hoped we could talk tomorrow (friday), then i also sent one more text sayin 'i'll prolly be more upset tomorrow if i dont get to talk to you' and finally i sent 'tho if you are asleep, i dunno, i wish you coulda talked to me pup (nickname)'......

NEXT MORNING, woke up around 5, saw NOTHING on my phone from him, so i texted 'call me when you wake up'. i went back to sleep. then woke up again around 8. still nothing. at 830 i called him, left him a message CALMLY askin why he didnt talk to me last nite and that i jus wanted to know what was up, like if he'd fallen asleep or what....i went to work at 1130, got off a little after 3, STILL nothing on my phone from him, and i knew by that time, he had to have already seen my messages and what not (cause i learned about around 5 he posted a pic of his parents by the college to fb via his phone)....so i was crying on the drive home from work and i left him a voice message 'i'm getting off work and you still havent responded to my messages, why won't you talk to me'...but i was driving so i just ended the message there. then when i got home i called him again, apologizing for acting that way but i was explaining that i was really upset and didnt understand why i didnt get anything from him late thursday (like a good night) and why he didnt talk to me thursday or yet on friday. i told him i wanted him to call me back cause i wanted to talk before i had work again and i didnt wanna be upset before work, i also wanted to know if he was busy or what (i worked at 530, in other words around the time he uploaded the pic to fb).....

i got off work after ten, there was STILL nothing on my phone from him, so i called him again and even tried his mom's cell again. NOTHING. then i got home, called again and this time it didnt ring it went right to his voicemail, so I KNEW he had his phone on him and then he sent me a text 'you and i need to have a talk when i get home, i'm pretty disappointed in you babe'.....so yea we're set to have a talk today........i dont understand why he was acting like this at all. i have this mindset that if he CARED about me and LOVED me he wouldnt have done this. but i dont know if this was some sorta test to him, cause eventually he is either gonna go off to the naval academy or TexasA&M and so he'll busy and not always able to text me and he's informed me of this....but there's a difference between legitly being busy with college and ignoring your gf while on a visit. i feel he always casts me aside when he's on trips with family, he did THE SAME THING when he went to Anapolis with his parents last March....i don't know what to do i dont know what to say, i dont think i did anything wrong......and i live by this quote 'When you're important to someone, they will always find a way to make time for you. No excuses, no lies, and no broken promises'
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