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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 8 years ago

Why did he introduce me to his family and spend Christmas Eve w/ mine if he doesn't like me?

Signs he likes me:

He got me a Christmas gift

He saw me as soon as he got into town

He spends a lot of time w/ me

He sat and had dinner w/ my mom and grandma

He introduced me to his parents

He took me to his uncle's house Christmas Eve night and introduced me to his whole family

We then went to my uncle's house and spent the rest of Christmas Eve with my whole family

Signs he doesn't like me:

He talks about his ex gf a LOT and went over to her house to fix something just last week...

He was invited to have Christmas dinner w/ our family but he declined, but for no real reason. He was doing the family thing in the morning and was free at night, but still decided not to come have dinner w/ us, which was a bit weird...but then again, he could've left at any time on Christmas Eve but stayed almosted the entire night...(see what I mean by MIXED SIGNALS)

The next morning, he stopped by to take me out to lunch.

He tells me I'm beautiful, tells me he misses me when we're apart, but he hasn't suggested exclusivity or labels......

I don't think he thinks of me as just a friend bc we've been physically intimate, yet I don't think he thinks of me as just a hook up, bc he's OPTED to introduce me to his family and to meet mine... that was all HIS idea..he was in no way forced into it...

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Best answer

    He really likes you and wants you to get used to being around his family and that he is ready to propose watch out girl he's ready are you?

    Source(s): my new mom and dad
  • 8 years ago

    Maybe he's just confused on what he wants. It's obvious that he has an attraction for you, but maybe part of him in the back of his head hasn't totally let go of her. Like he's holding onto a slim hope that they'll be together, but the more you spend time with him, the more that will fade. He'll realize that they are over, and you're right in front of him. At least from personal experience that's what happened...

    Source(s): That's what happened to me.
  • Irv S
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    He does like you, at a 'comfortable distance'.

    Maybe he feels 'eve' visit was enough, but that the dinner would have been

    an imposition, or 'too close too soon'.

    'No exclusivity or lables' indicates caution.

    Maybe theres a bit of 'once bitten, twice shy' from that 'Ex' situation.

    Maybe it's not toally over yet.

  • 3 years ago

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  • 8 years ago

    Possible: he using to make his ex jealous or to try to get over her. Probable: Everything is fine and you're looking WAY too into this and should be talking to him instead of Yahoo.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    He is definitely into you but talking about an ex does show signs that he is not completely over them..

  • Jenny
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    he's conflicted. You are the rebound girl. Either sit back and enjoy it, knowing there's no future, or get out now. Invest no further.

  • 8 years ago

    I think the only reason he talks about his ex girlfriend is to make sure that you know she is his EX, and that he is single now.

    He's definitely into you.

  • 8 years ago

    rebound :)

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