Christmas time with the family...his or mine?

Having been together 6 years this is my boyfriend & I first xmas in our own place. My family invited themselves to stay at our apartment for christmas. We always spend xmas with his family and i want to spend time with them, but i dont want to leave my family alone at our home....we decided to split up, him... show more Having been together 6 years this is my boyfriend & I first xmas in our own place. My family invited themselves to stay at our apartment for christmas. We always spend xmas with his family and i want to spend time with them, but i dont want to leave my family alone at our home....we decided to split up, him spending the day with his family and me staying with mine... was this the best choice for us or does family come first for the holidays?
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