Wife is wanting space?
A little more info. This happened this past Thursday (yah I got the timeline messed up). I don't use facebook however she does and she has a friend of mine on there but they rarely talk. Anyways he spotted something on there about her wanting someone to text her and her co worker friends saying things like "he doesn't know what he's missing" so that implies to me that there is someone else. When I confronted her about it she said she didn't understand her friends comments either and that it was she was wanting a guy from work to text her so she could ask him something. So I started checking her facebook myself and it was mostly innocent however there was a comment made Sunday where she posted sometimes someone comes from left field that catches you by surprise. All this sounds fishy to me but I would like some other constructive opinions.
I realize it was wrong to check her facebook but when something is wrong and she isn't telling me I'm not left with many options I don't think. Also my wife is bi polar and not on meds. She said yesterday she thinks she needs to get back on them because she doesn't understand why the feelings creep up on her like that when she has (her words) a great husband and a good life overall.
I already told her that if this culminates in divorce that I am done with her because I can't be friends with her and move on with my life at the same time because it would be too painful.
I was thinking about starting to spend more time doing what I want to do and just let her do her own thing for a couple of weeks. it would all make more sense if we had been fighting but just kind of out of the blue really.