How long should he wait to propose?
He wants to wait to propose, which of course is perfectly fine, we fight every so often about little things. Mostly because one of us wasn't being honest about our feelings and so on. I think we've pretty much established that there are no secrets and no holding back on how we voice our distaste for something. Which I simply love about this relationship, its very open. So I wonder, how long SHOULD he wait to propose? He wants to wait roughly three years. I'm not getting any younger or thinner, and as it was I never imagined myself getting married. To be honest, I was engaged three times before, and all three times I was left for someone else. So I lived for years just accepting the fact that I'd probably never get married, until he came along. I don't want to seem pushy, but at the same time, I don't want to let this good thing I have with him fade before he gets the chance to ask.
So, could someone tell me how long is too long? How long is too short? And how long would it be "just right"?
In any case, to the person who told me to go to college, I did. Got my Associates in Arts, I live in my own apartment, paying my own bills, I own my own car granted it's a beaten up little clunker but it gets me from point A to point B and fills up from empty with $25. I've known what I've wanted to be as a person since I was 8. You could say planning ahead is my specialty.
To others that are telling me
I don't mean to sound irritable, but most of these answers are just bashing me.
Oh, and yes. I've thought about marriage since I could draw a woman in a beautiful white gown properly with great detail. That was roughly 7... 8 years old