I have never had an orgasm through penetrative sex, am I normal?

I have been sexually active for 6 years and I've had roughly 60 different sexual partners. (no jokes about being hung like a wizards sleeve please, or about how many people I've been with) I can achieve an orgasm through masturbation by myself but never through penetrative sex. Sex feels good to me but... show more I have been sexually active for 6 years and I've had roughly 60 different sexual partners. (no jokes about being hung like a wizards sleeve please, or about how many people I've been with) I can achieve an orgasm through masturbation by myself but never through penetrative sex.

Sex feels good to me but I can never "get there" which really annoys me... it actually depresses me to be honest. I've had problems the past ten years. I've been severely depressed and have attempted suicide on several occasions. There are many reasons I've been depressed, one of them being the lack of orgasm.

My boyfriend does not know about me being unable to reach orgasm. We have tried every position imaginable, we've even used toys. Nothing works! I hate lying to him but I have faked every one since we met. I don't want to lie to him any more. Can anyone help??
Update: If anyone can tell me how I go about telling my boyfriend I will be very grateful! We've been together for a year and I just can't seem to find the words!
Update 2: Forgot to add... when I do achieve orgasm, I have to have my legs really close together (tight as flip) and it's only through orgasm.
Update 3: @ KushKandi Would you be able to email me so we can discuss further?

@Lil D ... I've been unsuccessfull in finding my G-Spot, no matter how hard I try!
Update 4: Yet another addition... I am ALWAYS incredibly horny before sex. I never go into it without being wet down there.
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