I'm a guy that loves to wear pantyhose. It first started off as something I admired from afar (on women) and then one day I was like, "Why is it only women can wear pantyhose?" So I went to the local grocery store and bought a pair and haven't looked back since.
I'm incredibly lucky in that my girlfriend knows and accepts my fetish. I get monthly waxing done on my legs and I wear pantyhose quite often with short shorts. I got a bunch of scrunchy socks from eBay and I ordered pantyhose from Peavey. Living in LA, the weather is usually nice enough for me to wear short shorts, scrunchy socks and sneakers (with a t-shirt or hoodie of course!). When it gets chilly, I wear short shorts, pantyhose and my UGGs.
Does it look "gay?" I'm sure it does (I wear the short shorts really high and sometimes my *** cheeks stick out) but I'm usually holding hands with my girlfriend and we love PDA so most people must think we have a very unique relationship. :)
No matter what, people are going to point and stare - its our nature. Just get used to that. I've even had some mothers move their kids away from me but honestly, I don't care. This is what I love so I'm gonna do it. I find myself getting turned on when people notice I'm wearing them. Sometimes I'll act like I'm on the phone and walk right in front of woman (guys usually never notice I'm wearing pantyhose) and I'll say something like, "Hey honey, yes, I'm wearing the new pantyhose you bought for me, they feel sooooo good." And then I'll rub my legs, *** and start adjusting them right in front of them - just to see their reaction. My girlfriend says I'm an exhibitionist. I think she's right!
The interesting thing, I used to get sexually excited when I would wear pantyhose. Now, I don't even get aroused. I can't explain how relaxed and happy I feel as soon I slide them on my legs. Don't get me wrong, when my girlfriend and I start fooling around (both of us wearing pantyhose) of course I get aroused!
So I hope I've answered your question. If you have any questions at all, need someone to talk to about our wonderful fetish, feel free to drop me a line.
Good luck and keep those pantyhose up!