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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

What did he mean when he said "let's just forget we ever met"?

There's this guy who has liked me since I met him. He really loved me. I could tell he did, but I didn't really like him, though. I was neutral about him. He liked me enough that he stood up for me. This "thing" named TJ was constantly telling everyone that I was a whore. Austin went and told her that she needed to leave me alone, and she kicked him in his balls. He said the pain didn't matter to him. I thought it was a nice thing for him to do, but I never really thought that much about him.

When I broke up with my cheating boyfriend he told me that he loved me, and I thought that he was kind of sweet, so I gave him my number. We were texting, and every once in a while he would remind me how much he loved me, and he said that he would be fine with me not dating him because he wanted me to be happy. So, I started dating (the greatest boyfriend I've ever had) Kyle and I started ignoring Austin. I stopped talking to him, and I didn't respond to his text messages. I thought he would get the hint that I didn't like him.

Today he texted me saying, "Why didn't you just tell me you didn't like me? I would've been able to get on with my life a lot sooner." I told him that me dating Kyle was me telling him that I didn't like him. He said "You know me. I'm an idiot. I don't pick up on these things." I said I was sorry he didn't get the memo. He responded a little later "It's cool. I'm a happier idiot knowing I can finally get on with my life. Let's just forget we ever met."

Does he not love me anymore? Why would he say "let's just forget we ever met"? He isn't a bad guy, but I don't understand why he would say that. I liked knowing that he loved me. I'm not sure if he does anymore, and for some reason I feel kind of sad.

I really want an honest answer. Please?

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    Ok it is girls like you that give other girls a bad name. And by that I mean you want to string him along for a saftey net. Not Cool! And Kyle might be the greatest BF right now but what about in 6 months or so, did he stand up for you? Did he open his heart up and lay it out there for you to step on, spit on and then kick it to the curb? No I did not think so!

    You need to learn now to be up front with the opposit sex and not use them as a passing musment so to speak. If you want to be just friends say so you know in your heart and they know in their heart nothing will come of any interaction you may have with them.

    I am sorry this is jus a cop out casue if Kyle has not come along you would still be hanging out with Austin and if another chick had come along and tried to steal Austin or made a play for him you would be here b!tching that someone stole your man!

    Good Luck!

    Oh and by the way it means he wish you would have never met so knowing that he DID love you is erased from his memory!

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  • 1 decade ago

    you said

    "So, I started dating (the greatest boyfriend I've ever had) Kyle and I started ignoring Austin. I stopped talking to him, and I didn't respond to his text messages. I thought he would get the hint that I didn't like him."

    you ignored him so he, rightfully being hurt said lets forget we ever met.

    "Does he not love me anymore? Why would he say "let's just forget we ever met"? He isn't a bad guy, but I don't understand why he would say that. I liked knowing that he loved me. I'm not sure if he does anymore, and for some reason I feel kind of sad."

    you ignored him and told him no yet you still want him to love you, wow selfish much ??

    what he meant is " you ßitch i hope you get your come-upence or such (like most guys when they're hurt he would have responded through hate and anger)"

    now it probaly means look you've hurt hurt me leave me alone

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you can take that statement at face value, almost. He is sorry he met you; he thinks you've been stringing him along. He laid himself open before you, and you didn't even have enough respect for him to tell him that you didn't feel the same. Now he wishes he had never met you, that things could go back to the way they were before you led him on. And I'm sorry, but that is exactly what it looks like and how it must have felt to him. He loved you and was always there for you when you needed a friend, yet he respected you enough not to make a play for you when you were dating someone else. He waited until you broke up with the boyfriend before telling you that he loved you. You responded by giving him your number, and texting back and forth with him. When he continued to tell you how much he loved you, you never one time told him that you didn't feel the same. Then you started dating someone else and ignored him completely. He shouldn't have had to ask why you didn't tell him. You led him on; I'm sorry, but you did. Now he is sorry that he ever met you. Love doesn't just go away over night, but that doesn't mean that he will ever trust you or open himself up to you again, or even want to be your friend. You hurt him, and your only excuse is, "Well I thought you would know or I'm sorry you didn't 'get the memo.'" I feel very bad for him, and if this were him asking this question, I would have to tell him to try not to let it get to him because he deserves better than you. I'm sorry, but it's the truth. If you knew that you didn't feel the same, why did you even give him your number, or why didn't you tell him right then at the very beginning that you could only ever be friends? Why let him believe that he had a chance, then not even have the decency to tell him that you didn't like him and were going to date someone else instead?

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  • Irene
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    First of all, why do you care if he loves you anymore? Didn't you say that you were neutral towards him>> Didn't you say that you have the greatest boyfriend you've ever had?? I can see why this guy is so confused..you are sending him conflicting messages..first you're neutral, then you're afraid you're losing him..What's up with you?? If you don't want the guy, give him a break and let him go..quit dragging his heart around..Let him get on with his life..leave him alone..and be with the greated boyfriend you've ever had!

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  • It means he doesn't love you anymore, he would say "let's just forget we ever met"? because he opened his eyes to see that you obviously need guys to be all sprung on you to make you feel good, and the guy finally realized that you weren't being a good friend by ignoring him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Plain and Simple you should of been honest with him and told him you liked him as a friend.To lead someone on is wrong and then just to ignore is even worse.If you ever want a true relationship,honesty is the only way to be...

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you just liked the idea of having him around drooling over you. Now that he sees you had him in the shadows he isn't having it. I think you know what it means when he said "let's just forget we ever met", he was honest enough to tell you he loved you and you just dismissed it, you should have told him then that you didn't feel the same way. You should feel sad b/c you did him dirty. Good Luck in your new relationship, remember Carma.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well i think you strung him along too much and now he probl does regret meeting you, its a pretty harsh way to tell someone u dont like them and then now u just want him to love u because u just like the attention?? U r a selfish immature w h o r e :)

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  • Andrea
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I don't see why you're even asking this, it's obvious that he doesn't like you anymore. Let's forget we met means let's forget we met. He doesn't like playing with people like you do. I'm glad he doesn't love, he deserves better because you don't like him back but you love the attention. Bella Swan, much?

    To Music: I saw the question too! Thanks for posting it, she can see it with her own eyes now.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Dude your a b*tch and a tease, you totally lead him on and should have told him you didn't like him. He loved you and you took complete advantage of him! you didn't deserve him he was too good for you, I would say that too and more if i were him. You know exactly why he would say that and all you wanted was to feel loved and u used him to feel that way! you are soo selfish i cant even believe you! Duh he doesn't love you anymore!

    Source(s): Hahaha here's your honest answer: His question on yahoo answers check it out http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlpPx...
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