best friends boyfriend, flirting with me !?

my best friends boyfriend has made her so happy now and her school life great now.

but recently hes been coming on to me when shes not around, he flirts and sometimes tries to even kiss me.

im not interested in him and he knows that but is that making him want me more ?

my best mate means everything to me and im afraid to tell her what hes been doing, what should i do ?

36 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favourite answer

    punch him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hmm... that really is a sticky situation.

    If I were you I would talk to the guy first and make it clear that you have no special interests with him and that your best friend means the world to you. Don't come off threatening though. Let him think and make the decision for himself whether to keep on flirting with you or be loyal to his girlfriend.

    If he continues to mess around then tell your best friend about him.

    But if he stops then just pretend he was a lost puppy who found his way back home :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her, even if she doesn't believe you and leaves you for him, it's the right thing to do.

    If your guy was doing that do you you'd want to know right? If she is willing to give up such a good friend for a guy then she is NOT a good friend and you need to find better for yourself.

    Who knows, she might believe you and then you'll have saved her a lot of pain. Either way I can only see the good in telling her. Yes it will hurt but most things in life do.

    Edit: To all the people telling you to avoid him and tell him no, If he's doing it to you whats to stop him from trying to do it to someone else?

    Case in point.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sweetie, if he'strying it on with you, he's trying it on with other girls too. As hard as this is you have to tell her. Pick a clam moment and just be straight up.

    She may be really unhappy for a while but she will be a hell of a lot happier in the long run than if this is allowed to limp on and she finds out later and feels like a fool.

    She will also really hate you for not telling her.

    Its really hard but bite the bullet and do it. Show her this as well. It might help.....

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He sounds like a waste of space and your friend deserves a better boyfriend than that doesnt she?

    She may not take the news nice so find a kind way to tell her or even get some proof. But you must tell her for the sake of friendship and you dont want you friend been hurt by him? do u?

  • 1 decade ago

    you should tell her because even tho she is your bestfriend and she shud believe you over him any day she may soon find out from someone else and then not believe you and you should not let some jerk ruin your guys's relation ship. let her knoe she is your best friend she will understand and if she doesnt well then she may just not be that great of a friend. but atleast you will kno u did the good deed in telling her because you wouldnt want her getting hurt in the end and you feel all the guilt.

    Source(s): me=]
  • 1 decade ago

    How is your trust between each other(You and your friend) if its good,I would tell her. Even if it hurts your friendship cause you don't want this to get out of hand and something happens and then your friend will made at you forever. And whenever your friend isn't around and he is around you trying to flirt with you I would just walk away and try to keep myself away from him when ever she isn't around.Cause you don't want to have him in your face when she isn't there cause one day she might come walking around the corner and see him coming onto you. And you know how most guys are they are going to lie and say that you were coming onto him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, if she is a best friend, I would tell him you plan on telling her if he doesn't stop. Then keep a watch on him. Flirting is cool, but trying to kiss you, well, he crossed the line. I would bust him. Talk to him first. She should know, perhaps she knows and chooses to look the other way. be well, Monk

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would tell her because if hes doing that to you it probably means that he is doing it to others as well. If he is even considering flirting with another girl when he is a relationship, the relationship is not going to go anywhere and he is just going to end up hurting your friend when he ends up cheating.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stay away from him when you are on your own if you can - don't tell her, it could harm your friendship. He is being a typical lad, lets face it, too young to settle down. You could maybe warn your friend to save her any heartbreak in the future, cos if he is doing it to you he is probably doing it to others. Glad I'm past all this now!

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell you friend that maybe she deserves better then him and tell her the truth before he does. She'll understand and if she doesn't break it off with him then maybe she deserves him. Tell him to leave you alone and that your not that type of girl. Be really mean to him and do something to him that will make him hate you. Like tell his best friends something that they don't know.

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