Third Date Sex?

Acceptable Third Date physical contact?

I met this guy a little over two weeks we have only been out twice since we met because of the holidays. We have talked on the phone quite a bit however. We kissed pretty heavily on our second date. Tonight is our third date and while I do not plan on sleeping with him now I was wondering what acceptable third date physical contract would consist of. Just more kissing? Please don't say "whatever feels right" or "it depends" type answers. I just want to get some ideas of ways we can get closer without going all the way and without making a **** of myself. Is sleeping with a guy on the third date bad if you want a relationship?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Best answer

    Get the relationship first and then sleep with him. You don't want to cheapen making love.

  • 1 decade ago

    Is it bad? No!! But YOU have to be comfortable with it!! I have always been the type of girl who would not even KISS my boyfriends ... and then I met my soon to be husband. We talked to each other for almost a year and then finally decided to go out on a date. It was magical the way we connected and he felt the same way. I slept with him on our second date ... and now we are getting married!

    If YOU are comfortable with it and you trust in him than go for it! There is nothing wrong with it. If you are not comfortable yet then I suggest you keep it at just some passionate kissing. Let the make out session get super heated and then hold yourself back!! Makes it more exciting for you and him and believe me .. if he is really into you ... he will wait!

  • 1 decade ago

    If I dont get action on the third date, I will definently kick her to the kerb! I mean man what is she waiting for does she like me or not? you should know by third date! Its comen knowledge The third date is it it's on! are we going to fine out how we get our freek on ore not!! hell its the third date!!! You now whats up he should know whats up!

    h*ll if I am into somebody the first date it is on!

    ever heard of a one night stand!

    I have made relationships out of one night stands!

    Third date he should be expecting it!!

    USE PROTECTION!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Yea its not a good idea to sleep with him so soon! If he is looking for a relationship, he probably wants a respectable girl! So don't give it up so easily! Hang in there hun!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    its not bad to sleep with a guy on the third date, but if i was you i wouldnt go that far. see what he wants to do and if your ok with that then just do it

  • 1 decade ago

    right now you should be trying to get to know each other! if you throw physical stuff in there now then that will dominate your relationship or thats basically what hes going to see in you! i didnt kiss my bf alot in the beginning hell i didnt even show him much affection! but because i was so cold he knew that he had to work to get me and boy did he! my advice is to cool it for now.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Slip your bra straps down so that your breasts are uncovered. Let him see your breasts but not touch or kiss them. Kiss his mouth with your tongue. Raise your skirt or open your pants zipper and show him your panties. Stroke him "down there" through clothes to completion. Keep your panty on. Keep his hands off your thigh area. Don't take "It" out and don't let him get "It" out of his pants or into you. Allow a little more sexual play on each date but stick to the "not inside me" rule. Tell him that the date on which you will allow him full sex is 28 Dec 2009 at the earliest.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Is it bad? No. For me by the third date I've either already slept with him or there isn't a third date.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no but if you want to be in a serious relationship i woukd wait longer then the 3rd date

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    *queue religions r tards telling you to wait till marriage*

    Just do what you want to do and dont sleep with him. simple.

    when he invites you up, say no.

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