ur vice is the oldest in the world and men have been relieveing their tensions in (on?) prostitutes longer than there has been writing, but the world we live in today is incredibly dangerous and unpredictable. what if you are having sex with a prostitute and ur condom breaks? ur taking that risk, not to mention that ur testicles are still unprotected from skin diseases (including herpes and syphillis). you don't have to quit using prostitutes, but take every precaution to protect yourself, besides who's to say that the women you might meet in the bar don't have AIDS or other STD's. Prostitutes have a higher STD rate than the general public, but there are clean ones too, just gotta spend more money. my mother was a prostitute and by being careful my mom is still STD free today and you know what? I am the one with an STD (HSV), and I have only had three partners, so just because a woman is a prostitute doesn't mean she's diseased, conversely, just because a woman seems to be just a normal woman, that doesn't mean she is clean. use your judgement and protect yourself. u could also see if you can find a f***buddy. that way u can reduce the risk of being with multiple women and just be with one that is sans relationship and clean, then you will greatly decrease your chances. sorry this is so long. if you need more advice, emial me.