Ladies, guys too, what are your opinions please?
I have known this for a long time, that I am apparently hopelesly old fashioned and out of date with today's moral standards.
HOW do the rest of you deal with this? Are you on board with what is "expected" and accepted in the dating world?
It seems that today a woman meets a guy, and within a few hours is giving him a BJ. No one seems to bat any eye over this. I find it horrifying and disgusting.
I dont even like kissing a "stranger" you just met !
I have no wish, desire and simply cannot could not bring myself to fit into this "service mentality" so many woman seem to have today.
To me oral sex is an extremely intimate thing, and I find it disgusting to even think about anyone and everyone --- well dammit to me its just disrespecting yourself. I cant see ever fitting into the "new dating scene".
Thoughts? Opinions? Anyone?
I am from a different generation. My mind doesnt go there, and neither does the rest of the required body parts.
Am I just hopelessly out of date and destined to not date or have a relationship because of it?
I am so out of date. Casual sex is just not for me. As in "yah thanks see you around". What is that?
I have asked my son to explain this new morality to me but he cant, not so that I understand it anyhow. :-(
And Libras need to be seduced via the mind, intellectually, before we consider it. Its hard to find a truly intellectual man because so many seem to be on the prowl and if they dont figure you are easy pickings they move on to someone they think is.