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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Friend-Boyfriend-Ex-Friend-Enemy-?? Can someone help??

i had this guy friend and we've been through a lot. from friends to boyfriend/girlfriend to ex to friend and then we became enemies sort of and now after a month of no contact are talking about what happened.

is it too complicated and too late to try to be friends again?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Mad I still really care about u and i wanted to tell u in phone but i couldn't find the right words and i hope that we will continue to be strong friends like how we did before but talking to u for these past 3 days had made me figure out that i still Love You and not as a friend and i really do hope that the thing that happened to that guy happens to us cause i dont think that i will feel the same way about someone else as i do with u cause we really have something and i cant explain it but it is like if we are perfect for eachother and yea thats all what i wanted to say and i pray to god that this is u Madeline because if it isnt then yea and i came to this yahoo answer to see the guys answer that was

    "I HAD THAT ONCE, AND I END UP GETTING MARRIED TO HER, AND NOW WE ARE VERY HAPPY ;^) "cause i really hope that happens between us but u noe it might just be me who feels this way well anyways dont think im being needy i just have one of these moments right now lol

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course not. I have been in the same sitituation for over 10 years! and I am not with him now. I love him more than any other guy that I have been with.It is not to late to be freinds again if you both can just be friends unless you want to waste a lot of your time on b.s. And just remember you broke up for a reason just remember that.

  • 1 decade ago

    Its never to late! To be Friends, but lets hope both of you have gain some experience of life and do not make the same mistakes to each other again ! Hope it works out fine.

    Source(s): Lifes little learning Game!!!
  • 1 decade ago

    The best lovers come from being best friends. I thank u two need to put your egos aside and talk. My best friend is my best friend because we can fuse joke get out of hand even fight, but at the end of the day we respect each other mind. decide to disagree and just be cool.

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  • 1 decade ago

    The more complications, the more difficult it will be, but the time passed will also lessen the difficulty. If he's worth it to you, keep trying for friendship, and only time will tell if it works out. Good luck to you! :)

    Source(s): Actually been in this situation before, figured they weren't worth it, and years later regret that I didn't rekindle the friendship.
  • 1 decade ago

    It's not "too late'' but sometimes it's hard to forget somethings so that may keep you guys from being as close as you were.

  • 1 decade ago

    that's something only the 2 of you can ask/answer for yourselves. it's your personal relationship.

    obviously the communication is still there; that's a big step in the right direction.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It compleatly depends on what the guy thinks of you. If you are fun enough to be around he probally still be your friend.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would be asking yourself what is the lesson that the two of you need to see that is drawing you two together.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    jus talk to him and ask him if u guys can go back to being friends again

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