Is the enagement off? What shoudl I do now? Space, wait?

My fiance & I(engaged 6 mos-together 17 mos,both 34,divorced, I have a 3 yr old)had an argument in the car yesterday& said he was going home(we're long distance,see every other weekend right now-very stressful)Told me he wasn't coming back.We've done this b4 - silly things(arguing over a street, saying... show more My fiance & I(engaged 6 mos-together 17 mos,both 34,divorced, I have a 3 yr old)had an argument in the car yesterday& said he was going home(we're long distance,see every other weekend right now-very stressful)Told me he wasn't coming back.We've done this b4 - silly things(arguing over a street, saying a car was ugly)This time he took back a credit card he'd given me.Gave it to him w/ my engagement ring & took a cab.Wish I hadn't.He took his stuff that was here,evenboxes of books, & stuff he'd loaned me.I know I can't let him act like this but overall he'sgreat!We know we fight silly & are in premarital counselng for it but it's been hard to go w/ distance/schedules.I know it wasimmature but I'm heartbroken & don't know what 2 do.Guess I give him space & go back 2 counselng.He wants me not to call-says he still lovesme but I never gave back ring b4 & he never took all his stuff.I usually act passive till he cools off and ask him to stay.Nevr went this far b4. What if it's over? Help!
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