First, Jesus didnt teach what Buddha taught. Jesus taught what Jesus taught. That was completely God in the flesh. Do you have children? What do you do when they disobey you? Do you praise them and give them candy? No, you punish them. It has nothing to do with acceptance. God loves you, as He is a FATHER. If you disobey Him, what do you deserve? Punishment. What did my Father do for me? Well, He came down onto this earth, was beaten, humiliated, and crucified for my sins, as a sacrifice in my place. How much more love does He have to show you? He could have condemned us all, but He provided a way for us to live without having to sacrifice animals. All He wants is your heart. Did you know in Heaven, Jesus will be the only one with scars still on His body, while we sit around looking and feeling perfect? And He was happy to do it so that we might sit with Him and love Him. I think that is far more loving than Buddha or anyone else could have ever been.
If you never gave Him the time of day, never said thank you, always took advantage of the gifts He gave you, He has an absolute right. It is not hate, He is a just and wonderful God. He leaves it up to you to love Him back. Dont you think He created Satan out of love? Same thing for him... but it was the love of self and disobedience that got him to where he is today. So it is for MANY people today. They would rather live by their own rules than to see that His law is perfect in itself. What is right in my mind is not perfect. God perfect us. Also, if you never loved God to begin with, how can He make you love Him? That is free will.