Is it my place or his place to tell?

I started talking to this dude. Come to find out he has a girlfriend and 2 children. One which is by her and another by someone else. When have messed around since June and now I might be pregnant. If I am I know he will try to keep it on the down low, which is something I do not want. My question is should I tell... show more I started talking to this dude. Come to find out he has a girlfriend and 2 children. One which is by her and another by someone else.
When have messed around since June and now I might be pregnant. If I am I know he will try to keep it on the down low, which is something I do not want. My question is should I tell the girlfriend ( woman to woman) or just let it come out on its own through a rumor or family members?
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