• Was I wrong to have her sleep over?

    I went to a party with my gf Friday night and I had her sleep over at my house. I hadn’t planned on her staying but we got dropped off to my house at 2 a.m. and had both drank and I really didn’t want to drive 30 minutes to drop her off. To be clear, we didn’t do anything. We just slept in the same bed. I dropped... show more
    I went to a party with my gf Friday night and I had her sleep over at my house. I hadn’t planned on her staying but we got dropped off to my house at 2 a.m. and had both drank and I really didn’t want to drive 30 minutes to drop her off. To be clear, we didn’t do anything. We just slept in the same bed. I dropped her off and when I got back my mom started yelling at me as soon as I got home. She said that it was trashy and started saying she was going to kick her out herself if it happened again. My dad wasn’t even mad about it and she was acting like that. I tried to ignore her but she didn’t stop until I left. Now she’s ignoring me and acting like I did something horrible. I’m 18 and am moving away come graduation, so this really seems petty. Should I tell her sorry to just smooth things over? I didn’t want to drive after drinking and my gf is not some hoe, so I don’t see anything wrong since I’m not a kid anymore.
    44 answers · 24 hours ago
  • Should I let my 22 year old daughter go to a pool party?

    My 22 year old daughter was invited to a pool party by one of her classmates at college and I am not sure if I should let her go sinc there will be boys. However, she said that all of her friends are going and she has to go. She said that she will be swimming with other girls and boys but nothing bad will... show more
    My 22 year old daughter was invited to a pool party by one of her classmates at college and I am not sure if I should let her go sinc there will be boys. However, she said that all of her friends are going and she has to go. She said that she will be swimming with other girls and boys but nothing bad will happen she may be 22 but she lives with me so I can make sure she does not go. On the day of the party if I don't want her to go I will take away the car keys
    24 answers · 17 hours ago
  • This girl says I'm her baby's father but I refuse to take responsibility until there's proof?

    We're both 17 and I refuse to take care of the kid until there's proof that I'm the dad and she can't handle that and is having a breakdown or something,You're thoughts?
    We're both 17 and I refuse to take care of the kid until there's proof that I'm the dad and she can't handle that and is having a breakdown or something,You're thoughts?
    100 answers · 4 days ago
  • I’m so abandoned, what do I do?

    I’m a 19 adopted female, my biological family decided to get rid of me at 18 years old. They sent me to a University 5 hours away from home in the mountains and have left me here ever since. They never come out to get me even during the breaks and my birthday, they would never let me learn how to drive in high... show more
    I’m a 19 adopted female, my biological family decided to get rid of me at 18 years old. They sent me to a University 5 hours away from home in the mountains and have left me here ever since. They never come out to get me even during the breaks and my birthday, they would never let me learn how to drive in high school, Christmas break is now coming soon - it’s 4 weeks long but the dorms will be locked. I will be sleeping outside in the snow because I can’t get a ride to where my home is. There are no buses, or taxi here in this stranded city. I put up on Facebook on several groups to see if someone would be able to give me a ride if I pay them if they are heading there already, but no one has ever replied. I don’t understand why nobody likes me. I’m skinny, blonde, and I have a symmetrical face and fixed teeth. And because I’m alone, some big girls at my University are harassing me both in person and online. What’s wrong with me?, I’m not deformed or disabled or anything.
    28 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is a height 5'5" too short for modelling.?

    If yes, then why? Aren't men attracted to short women of heights around 5'5"?
    If yes, then why? Aren't men attracted to short women of heights around 5'5"?
    16 answers · 8 hours ago
  • I’m 24, parents and sister don’t want me to live alone?

    When I moved out my parents sent my younger (by 5 years) sister to live with me. She micromanage me all the time and constantly reports back to my parents. They do suprise visits several times a week. Every time I save up enough to move out my parents take the money from my bank account saying that if I managed to... show more
    When I moved out my parents sent my younger (by 5 years) sister to live with me. She micromanage me all the time and constantly reports back to my parents. They do suprise visits several times a week. Every time I save up enough to move out my parents take the money from my bank account saying that if I managed to save that much I must not need it and they do need it cause they will spend it since I’m not. I feel like I’m trapped. They have no comprehension that I just don’t want to live with family anymore. Especially this dysfunctional family. How can I escape?
    41 answers · 4 days ago
  • Have do I deal with emotionally abusive parents when I have no one to talk to?

    I am always somehow getting into arguments with them or my siblings. I share a room, so I feel trapped and I have no escape or safe place anywhere I go. The only time I feel calm is when I have my earphones in and I am finally able to block out the world, I know this isn t healthy and it has basically turned into a... show more
    I am always somehow getting into arguments with them or my siblings. I share a room, so I feel trapped and I have no escape or safe place anywhere I go. The only time I feel calm is when I have my earphones in and I am finally able to block out the world, I know this isn t healthy and it has basically turned into a full time thing, as everytime I engage with the real world I feel like ****. For example, this afternoon my mum asked me and my sister to put the washing up away, as I went to put a cup away, i found sugar in the cup and glass cabinet and asked "who put this in here" and apparently that s enough to start a massive argument between 4 people. I just don t understand how I get myself into these situations. I always feel like my mum and dad just really don t care and would rather have no children than talking children, and my sister hates me. I have no friends to talk to about anything, so I just hold it in until I erupt when I can t deal with the stress. When I am actually getting on with my siblings, we get shouted at for making too much noise or playing the the dog "being twats". My parents used to be so loving and I looked forward to coming out of school to spend the rest of the day with them. I just really don t know what happened. Sometimes I m literally scared to speak because of both of their massive mood swings. See comment below
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you look like your mom or dad?

    Or neither ?
    Or neither ?
    11 answers · 20 hours ago
  • I got into a huge fight with my mom who’s in the wrong here?

    It all started when my mom asked me to sing for her as I sing “professionally” I guess you could say. So I sang my first song and she said it was good. Then I sang the second song which I put a lot of practice into, and I personally thought was some of my best vocals. Anyways she then begins to mock my voice and... show more
    It all started when my mom asked me to sing for her as I sing “professionally” I guess you could say. So I sang my first song and she said it was good. Then I sang the second song which I put a lot of practice into, and I personally thought was some of my best vocals. Anyways she then begins to mock my voice and laugh about it which hurt my feelings. She told me to sing that part of the song again, which I did. Then she mocks me yet again and says she doesn’t like it. I told her I was gonna stop there as I was already feeling disappointed at that point. I sat down on the couch next to her silently and she said “you need to learn how to accept criticism, I know what good singing is because I took singing when I was in school (in a different country btw).” I then fired back saying “well I thought it was good.” and she says “whatever you say.” I couldn’t stand how insensitive she being so I broke down crying and stormed into my room, my dad was in the room as well and he told me I was being a brat. Then 20 min later my mom walks past my room and tells me she’s not going to my performance because she doesn’t care about it and that I don’t sing good. I couldn’t hide my feelings anymore and I told her she owed me an apology for making fun of me. She refused and said she doesn’t owe me any apology. is she wrong or am I?
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • My stepfather is touchy, advice?

    Before you think child abuse, I’m 21. I don’t know if it is sexual. He will walk up and slap my butt or grab it or “jiggle” it. It didn’t used to bother me until it hit me that it was weird and i started getting really uncomfortable. I tell him to stop and he doesn’t. Also, no, my mom pays no attention to it. He’s... show more
    Before you think child abuse, I’m 21. I don’t know if it is sexual. He will walk up and slap my butt or grab it or “jiggle” it. It didn’t used to bother me until it hit me that it was weird and i started getting really uncomfortable. I tell him to stop and he doesn’t. Also, no, my mom pays no attention to it. He’s also controlling in other aspects such as what i can wear, who i can be around, and is very strict. Honestly, it sounds like he falls into the perfect category of an abuse partner except he’s my step dad. I don’t know what to do.
    43 answers · 6 days ago
  • Is it wrong to wish my dad was dead sometimes?

    My dad genuinely scares me. I feel like he scares my mom too, but she won’t admit it. I’m almost 19, and I’m desperately looking for a job just to get the money rolling and potentially have a chance at getting a place with my sister. I feel awful for feeling what I feel, but sometimes I just can’t help it. I feel... show more
    My dad genuinely scares me. I feel like he scares my mom too, but she won’t admit it. I’m almost 19, and I’m desperately looking for a job just to get the money rolling and potentially have a chance at getting a place with my sister. I feel awful for feeling what I feel, but sometimes I just can’t help it. I feel like if he were to die, there’d be a weight off my family’s shoulders. I get so afraid when he comes home because I never know what mood he’s in, or what is bothering him that day. He likes to throw things when he’s angry too. Breaks a lot of stuff. If he were to die, I would cry, don’t get me wrong. I do love him. But he isn’t a good person. He’s a narcissist, emotionally abusive, and manipulative.
    9 answers · 19 hours ago
  • No family very lonely?

    I want a family. I don’t have a father and my moms family is dysfunctional. I’m an only child too. Do I have to have kids to spread out my family line? The thing is I don’t want any. If I don’t have them, I’ll be all alone for the rest of my life
    I want a family. I don’t have a father and my moms family is dysfunctional. I’m an only child too. Do I have to have kids to spread out my family line? The thing is I don’t want any. If I don’t have them, I’ll be all alone for the rest of my life
    9 answers · 24 hours ago
  • My husband wants me to meet his dead mother... should I?

    My husband's mother died in the winter of 1989. His family has decided to have her body exhumed and moved to a cemetery that is closer to where most of them live. He is telling me that he wants to spend time with her body and open the coffin and see her again. He also wants me to "meet" my mother... show more
    My husband's mother died in the winter of 1989. His family has decided to have her body exhumed and moved to a cemetery that is closer to where most of them live. He is telling me that he wants to spend time with her body and open the coffin and see her again. He also wants me to "meet" my mother in law during this session. I'm not sure how to feel about it or what to expect.
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why does my daughter have negative associations with our old town?

    Best answer: My guess is she associates negative experiences with her old town. Being chronically bullied usually has long term effects on the individual. These can include low self esteem, lack of self worth, anxiety, depression, and lead to the individual bullying others. I recommend your daughter seeks professional treatment... show more
    Best answer: My guess is she associates negative experiences with her old town. Being chronically bullied usually has long term effects on the individual. These can include low self esteem, lack of self worth, anxiety, depression, and lead to the individual bullying others. I recommend your daughter seeks professional treatment from a mental health professional to heal and move past the trauma.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • New mom, pregnant again, broke, unemployed, alone, empty and depressed, what can I do to make my life better?

    I’m a new mom of one. My son is 8 months old, now I’m pregnant again. My sons father was treating me bad so I moved back home (12 hrs away) in hopes of support from family. They give us a roof over our head but that’s about it. I have no car so it’s hard to find work with limited or no public transit nearby. My... show more
    I’m a new mom of one. My son is 8 months old, now I’m pregnant again. My sons father was treating me bad so I moved back home (12 hrs away) in hopes of support from family. They give us a roof over our head but that’s about it. I have no car so it’s hard to find work with limited or no public transit nearby. My sons dad is being spiteful and hasn’t sent me any money for him since I left a wk ago. I’m 4 months pregnant with his 2nd child and that doesn’t seem to matter. I have no friends at all. Everyone has turned their back on me now that I’m down and not doing good. I thought about returning back to live with my sons dad but life is too unstable with him...ex. Bills never paid on time, power always being cut off, almost homeless every month. Plus he refuses to watch our son so I can get a job to help with bills and I can’t afford daycare. Everyone seems to hate me right now. My mom is annoyed when I ask for a ride to interviews or ask her to watch my son while I go look for work. Everyone hates me. I just want to run away and never look back, but I don’t know where to run to. I try to stay positive but nothing is working. I’m hopeless, tired, and about to give up. I cry everyday and everything I try doesn’t work. If anyone has any advice please give it and I will try one more time before giving up. Thanks.
    37 answers · 6 days ago
  • How come family only see you at weddings or a funeral but never visit you or help you out when your in debt etc?

    Best answer: Sadly, many family members have borrowed and do borrow from family but these family members never pay the person back. I suppose if a family member does visit, then the fear might be that someone will ask to borrow money. It is not easy to turn down a family member. I imagine that a lot of people are in debt and... show more
    Best answer: Sadly, many family members have borrowed and do borrow from family but these family members never pay the person back. I suppose if a family member does visit, then the fear might be that someone will ask to borrow money. It is not easy to turn down a family member. I imagine that a lot of people are in debt and they cannot derive help at all, so they cannot help their family members. There are those people with a gambling addiction, drug addiction, a drinking problem, or any number of addictions so family don't want to give someone money so that they can indulge in their addictions.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why is my life like this? What am I doing wrong?

    Like, whenever one problem ends, after just a few days, a new and even more serious problem comes up. It's a never ending cycle. There are only a FEW days when I'm not dealing with any problems... :( Why is my life like this? Where am I going wrong? Why don't others have so mamy problems in their lives? show more
    Like, whenever one problem ends, after just a few days, a new and even more serious problem comes up. It's a never ending cycle. There are only a FEW days when I'm not dealing with any problems... :( Why is my life like this? Where am I going wrong? Why don't others have so mamy problems in their lives?
    9 answers · 1 day ago