• Can my parents take things from me that I bought with money I earned from MY job?

    For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.
    For example: laptop. I bought it with money I earned from MY job.
    92 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I spend Christmas with my family?

    They invited me. I don’t know why. I haven’t seen them since summer 2008. It’s awkward. I don’t want to go.
    They invited me. I don’t know why. I haven’t seen them since summer 2008. It’s awkward. I don’t want to go.
    30 answers · 2 days ago
  • Could my cousin be molesting my 2 year old sister?

    My sister is only two years old and she s been showing sexual behavior. Just this afteenoon she straddled my lap and kissed me, like full on kissing. I pushed her off immediately and asked her what she was doing. She just stared at me. Then I remembered that my aunt had taken care of her yesterday and she spent... show more
    My sister is only two years old and she s been showing sexual behavior. Just this afteenoon she straddled my lap and kissed me, like full on kissing. I pushed her off immediately and asked her what she was doing. She just stared at me. Then I remembered that my aunt had taken care of her yesterday and she spent the day with my cousin. He s only 5 but he s very perverted. One time I was in my room alone and he came in and closed the door. I didn t take it for nothing because he s just a little boy, but he straddled me and started humping me. I pushed him off too. He s also kissed me and grabbed my boobs. I ve talked with his older sisters and another one of my cousins and she s dealt with the same. His sister also told me my aunt once left him and my sister alone in the bathroom while she left to get something and they found him taking my sister s clothes off. I m just wondering if he could be the one touching my sister inappropriately? I was also molested when I was five by my cousin who was 18 at the time. I don t want my sister going through what I did with going to counselors and not talking to most of my family anymore. What can I do?
    20 answers · 3 days ago
  • How can i convince my parents to let me go veggie/ vegan?

    my parents are meat eaters and i have tried to tell them facts and info about meat but they always have great come backs and they think i dont eat enough anyway.
    my parents are meat eaters and i have tried to tell them facts and info about meat but they always have great come backs and they think i dont eat enough anyway.
    7 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do you like to make your siblings cry?

    22 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can my parents force me to go to church?

    NOTE: Sorry, this is going to be long, but I feel that some background is needed for this question. So, I am 19, and I still live under my parent's roof. I don't have too much money in savings, but I work around 15-20 hours a week along with being a full time student, so I'm saving up as much as I can... show more
    NOTE: Sorry, this is going to be long, but I feel that some background is needed for this question. So, I am 19, and I still live under my parent's roof. I don't have too much money in savings, but I work around 15-20 hours a week along with being a full time student, so I'm saving up as much as I can to move out within the next couple of years or so. (With a roomate or two, because let's face it, minimum wage could never cover rent AND utilities anywhere.) Anyways, my parents (most specifically my father) have the mentality that "I live under their roof, therefore I live by their rules." My dad even takes it so far as to that if I want to move out, he feels that he has to give me permission to do so, and that if I take my car somewhere that they do not approve of, I KNOW he would not hesitate to call the police and say that I stole it. Also,both of my parents have an app that tracks my location on both my phone and my brother's, AND MY BROTHER IS 21. (Yes, he still lives at home.) So, with all of this information, my dad still is VERY big on church and sees any time that I am sick or am helping volunteer in the church with the nursery as an excuse to miss the service. It's not that I don't believe in God or anything anymore, but I'd rather discover things on my own and make sure I know why I believe what I believe by exploring things by myself and not just because it's what I grew up in. .
    14 answers · 20 hours ago
  • My Mom is a really dumb person, how do I make her undumb?

    Best answer: You can't fix stupid.
    Best answer: You can't fix stupid.
    11 answers · 21 hours ago
  • I HATE my new step mom. I'm almost 16 and she gave me a "bed time" and takes my phone away at night. Like wtf. She's crazy. What should I do?

    My moms dead so I can't live with her and my step brother is disgusting too. My dad and her went on vacation this weekend and when he expected me to go to bed at 9:30 on a weekend I refused and woudnt for him my phone at night so when they came back my dad took my phone for a week. (I'm on my computer)... show more
    My moms dead so I can't live with her and my step brother is disgusting too. My dad and her went on vacation this weekend and when he expected me to go to bed at 9:30 on a weekend I refused and woudnt for him my phone at night so when they came back my dad took my phone for a week. (I'm on my computer) She's brainwashing him. What do I do??????
    10 answers · 16 hours ago
  • I feel so disillusioned with religion. I've had these strange experiences and I don't know who to relate to anymore?

    I live a lonely life in a conservative part of the country. I used to go to church and was a firm believer. However, because of my liberal upbringing I always thought about unorthodox ideas and when I shared them with the people at church I never felt accepted. I've had so many bad experiences with going to... show more
    I live a lonely life in a conservative part of the country. I used to go to church and was a firm believer. However, because of my liberal upbringing I always thought about unorthodox ideas and when I shared them with the people at church I never felt accepted. I've had so many bad experiences with going to churches that now when I pass by one I'm too anxious to even go in. To top it off, I've had these strange psychic experiences that has gotten me believing in aliens and stuff. Should I just move to another part of the country, or should I try to embrace all the normal people around me?
    11 answers · 24 hours ago
  • How to handle extra person in house who is stressing my girlfriend out?

    My girlfriend and I live together in our townhome. Her sister has been renting a room in it for the past two years and everything has been fine. Her long distance boyfriend finally moved to the same state and they’re building a house together. Their house isn’t going to be finished for another 6-8 months.... show more
    My girlfriend and I live together in our townhome. Her sister has been renting a room in it for the past two years and everything has been fine. Her long distance boyfriend finally moved to the same state and they’re building a house together. Their house isn’t going to be finished for another 6-8 months. Originally my girlfriend agreed to let him stay for a month until he found an apartment to live in until his house was built. Now that he’s here and been in the house for a couple weeks he’s staying he just wants to stay here until the house is built for his convenience. He gets military housing allotment so finances aren’t an issue, he actually said he just didn’t want to deal with the hassle. He has no jjob currently so he’s always at the house now. My girlfriend suffers from severe anxiety and depression and feels very uncomfortable in her own home right now. I’m furious because I work evenings and get texts from her saying that she feels like she can’t even leave her bedroom and will actually go hungry until she feels like no one is there to leave. I want to confront him because he is directly distressing my girlfriend and he is basically just pushing her to the side and doing as he pleases. I’ve explained to the sister that my gf is suffering but it seems neither are taking it seriously are not looking for apartments. My girlfriend does not want me to talk to him but I really feel like I need to, the longer this goes on the more my blood boils. What should I do?
    31 answers · 5 days ago
  • What do you do if you get a girl pregnant and want to help raise the daughter?

    But don’t want anything to do with the mother.
    But don’t want anything to do with the mother.
    9 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Parent(s) found my sex toys, I feel embarrassed and angry?

    Hi! So I was at work, and came back home to find that my room had basically been tidied the hell up, I'm assuming it was my mum that did it. Anyway I panicked because the headphone box I keep my sex toys in (dildo, vibrators) had been moved across the room and I can't help but wonder if she looked inside... show more
    Hi! So I was at work, and came back home to find that my room had basically been tidied the hell up, I'm assuming it was my mum that did it. Anyway I panicked because the headphone box I keep my sex toys in (dildo, vibrators) had been moved across the room and I can't help but wonder if she looked inside to see what was in there. She also went through all my drawers and re-arranged literally everything, that's also where I hid some lube and that's also been moved. She didn't even tell me she was going to be going through my room etc, so I feel pretty angry and feel like she's just gone through my private things behind my back. And I'm honestly too embarrassed to talk to them at the moment, because what the hell do they think of me? They haven't said anything to me about it. There's a possibility she didn't look inside the box, and she didn't notice what she was moving was actually lube, but how likely is that? =/ Help?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to deal with annoying people on thanksgiving?

    So my mom and I am are cooking thanksgiving dinner. Everyone seems to like the food except one person. All they do is complain and ask if I know what I am doing. They never bring anything, either. They have never cooked anything but will not stop following me around the kitchen,panicking over nothing,criticizing... show more
    So my mom and I am are cooking thanksgiving dinner. Everyone seems to like the food except one person. All they do is complain and ask if I know what I am doing. They never bring anything, either. They have never cooked anything but will not stop following me around the kitchen,panicking over nothing,criticizing everything I do. Asking me why I don't microwave the stuffing or use a masher instead of a food processor to mash up the mash potatoes fifty or sixty times and why do I have to make sweet potatoes with marshmallows because that is fattening.I told them to make their own, but they said it looks to hard. I try not to blow up but after hearing this all day , it stresses me out. I really lost it, when I heard them Telling people they aren't sure if they should be eating what I made and that their dog could cook better food. My mother said she is going to ask why are they here? if they do it again. My other sister said she will bring wine.
    9 answers · 21 hours ago
  • My mother makes me kiss her. I feel harassed but everyone says it’s normal. Please help me. - 17 yo guy in high school.?

    Best answer: This isn't a normal relationship at all. You need to get some help right away. Talk to a counselor at your school or a teacher that you're comfortable talking with about all that is happening at home. Hopefully, the counselor reports all this to the agency that protects children like CPS or a unit that... show more
    Best answer: This isn't a normal relationship at all. You need to get some help right away. Talk to a counselor at your school or a teacher that you're comfortable talking with about all that is happening at home. Hopefully, the counselor reports all this to the agency that protects children like CPS or a unit that handles such complaints. Meanwhile, you need to distance yourself from this woman. She is a predator and will keep on with this behaviour until she is stopped. For now, it is up to you to push her away the best that you can. Talk to your father about what is happening and see if he has any ideas to stop this woman. What she is doing is considered abuse and is against the law. It is not normal to kiss your mother on the lips or any of the other sick things that she wants you to do. Stand up for yourself and hopefully, one of the agencies will step in and remove you from the house. Good luck and I hope that this nightmare ends soon!
    42 answers · 7 days ago
  • Either my sister wants attention or just had a mental breakdown?

    My sister has a two year old daughter and is going through a divorce. Her husband never visits and she basically just goes to school and takes care of her child. I know she says it s a lot of stress raising a kid alone but I never thought much of it. I was just over to her house and she was screaming at the kid to... show more
    My sister has a two year old daughter and is going through a divorce. Her husband never visits and she basically just goes to school and takes care of her child. I know she says it s a lot of stress raising a kid alone but I never thought much of it. I was just over to her house and she was screaming at the kid to put something down and to stop messing with the light switch. Normally those things aren t a big deal but this time she screamed at her (not yelling, screaming). Then my sister starts screaming to the top of her lungs. I figured she had burned herself on boiling water because she was cooking in the kitchen but no. She was just screaming. I offered to take my niece and she said no and that it s bad how we only offer to help her if she acts crazy. This was a first. My niece was crying but she told me I couldn t take her so I just sat down with my niece to calm her. Then my sister comes back in yelling at me saying the family and I never help with the baby and stuff and tells me to leave. I was hesitant because my niece was crying again from all the yelling so I just stayed sitting down with my niece. Then my sister comes in, takes her kid and tells me to leave so I did. This was about 10 minutes ago. What the hell do I do?
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • I said sorry to my parents and asked for forgiveness and asked for a second chance, I let them down , did I deserve such a harsh punishment?

    I have been grounded for the last 2 weeks this is for drinking alcohol ( I am 16 ) my parents were going to have a party and fireworks party, they said I would be let off a week early so I could attend the party if I signed a contract saying I would not touch alcohol again, if I broke the contract my punishment... show more
    I have been grounded for the last 2 weeks this is for drinking alcohol ( I am 16 ) my parents were going to have a party and fireworks party, they said I would be let off a week early so I could attend the party if I signed a contract saying I would not touch alcohol again, if I broke the contract my punishment would be much more severe, they said it would be at least 3 days lockdown ( LOCKED IN MY ROOM ) I am sorry to say 2 days ago I came home smelling of alcohol, my parents went mad and locked me in my room it was HORRIBLE the worse part was yesterday evening when my parents had a party there was music, dancing and fireworks in our garden, can you imagine how I felt sitting in my room from behind a LOCKED bedroom door listening to all the fun and NOT being able to join in I even watched the fireworks from my locked bedroom window, I felt SO sad and MISREABLE I even cried,later my sister unlocked my door, brought me some food from the barbecue then took great pleasure in telling me how great the party was going, then SLAMMED my bedroom door shut, and turned the key in the lock (CLICK ) WERE MY PARENTS RIGHT TO PUNISH ME SO SEVERLY ? DO YOU THINK MY SISTER IS MEAN ?
    21 answers · 4 days ago
  • What do I do about my boyfriend's laziness?

    My boyfriend is extremely lazy. Not just lazy but very unmotivated. He's unemployed but that's not the problem, I know it's a tough market out there. But he's not even trying. I keep telling him to apply and he doesn't? He just loves his video games. A month ago he got a job through a temp... show more
    My boyfriend is extremely lazy. Not just lazy but very unmotivated. He's unemployed but that's not the problem, I know it's a tough market out there. But he's not even trying. I keep telling him to apply and he doesn't? He just loves his video games. A month ago he got a job through a temp agency but he got fired after a couple weeks for being...you guessed it, lazy! And he's not motivated to study. He's resitting his GCSE English and maths to get into uni but he doesn't study. He failed them twice, once in school and once in sixth form college while he was studying a course. And is he motivated to actually apply to go to uni? Nope! Hasn't applied yet and the January deadline will probably arrive before he's able to lift a finger. He did apply to this uni last year (it's one of the few unis in the UK that offer the course he wants to do) but he got rejected due to lack of GCSEs. He keeps saying he wants to do this and that, but it's all talk and no action. I graduated from uni in July and work in a law firm so I have tried to get some connections for him. I've tried to support him. I have for months. I have told him about alternative options besides university, like apprenticeships. I have even looked into some for him. But he doesn't want to do that. This side of him is now causing me to feel indifferent. I feel like he ignores me. Everything else is fine b/w us though, I still love him and don't want to leave him.
    8 answers · 1 day ago